Comments on: Who Is Asking You Tough Questions?

By: Jennifer Loftin

Jennifer Loftin — Thu, 21 Oct 2010 23:00:57 +0000

I could “amen” Jules that these “close knit groups” are tough to find. I opened up to a church staff person about some areas of struggle and was very judged a year ago.

Fortunately, I found a growth group at my current church that is godly, very good at non-judgement, safe but spurs me on through prayer, scripture and hugs. I do think it is wise to go into accountability relationships cautiously and really get to know folks before saying too much. That said, if you find a good group that can speak truth in love, wow! then you have found something worth more than gold.

By: Jules Rusinowski

Jules Rusinowski — Thu, 21 Oct 2010 18:05:42 +0000

Hey Charlie,
This is a tough one for men. We don’t want to share our weaknesses. About 13 years ago, when we lived in So. California, I had 2 guys whom I got together with a couple times per month and we asked these tough questions. We called them “integrity groups” I think. We also got together with a larger group of men once or twice a month too. This was a great time in my life, where I was growing closer to the Lord everyday.
Since moving to Arkansas, I have tried to find some guys like this, but have not been successful. I thought I was close once or twice, but have found so far, either we were just superficial or I was judged by these so called friends.
We are now praying to move to NWA for many reasons. When the Lord opens up the door, maybe I can find someone like you, who is interested in this stuff.

By: Cyndi Williams

Cyndi Williams — Thu, 21 Oct 2010 16:27:11 +0000

So, you know I have had a neck issue for 3 weeks now and it’s really frustrating because I haven’t been able to work, drive or do much around the house. One of the youth I work with texted me after seeing all my facebook updates about it and asked “How are you finding the joy in the situation?”. She knew I was finding NO joy in it. Her question reminded me that there is some and I needed to look for it. While being out of work for neck pain and vacation are far different things, I realized it was some much needed rest for body, mind and soul…and I got caught up on some homework. She had talked to me the week before about not having time for youth group because she had too much homework. I said “Do you really think if you spend 2 hours at youth group that God won’t help you get your homework in on time?!” I was joking, but ironically he did just that for me the next week.

I love those friends who ask tough questions. I used to have a pastor friend who would do that, but he moved to NWA…gosh I miss him!

By: Aaron Reddin

Aaron Reddin — Thu, 21 Oct 2010 16:08:12 +0000

Ugh…I always hate this question. You know why.

You know the only thing I like about this post? This:

“How was I supposed to take the American Dream Dusty Rhodes seriously when we was so fat?”