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		<title>Resolution 2: Blog Again and Why I Stopped aka (One of) The Best Thing That&#8217;s Happened to Our Family</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[As none of you may have noticed, I quit blogging there for a while.  There are a few of reasons for that.  Some of which are not very interesting.  Most of the stuff that God has been teaching me has to do with how to be a better pastor from an organizational leadership perspective.  Seeing [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As none of you may have noticed, I quit blogging there for a while.  There are a few of reasons for that.  Some of which are not very interesting.  Most of the stuff that God has been teaching me has to do with how to be a better pastor from an organizational leadership perspective.  Seeing how you are not a pastor, you probably wouldn&#8217;t be interested in that.  I blog mostly from what is going on in my life and when I would sit down to write something, I would think &#8220;No one would be interested in that.&#8221; I know what you must be thinking (the 3 of you who have read this before), &#8220;Wait, your posts are supposed to be interesting?&#8221;</p>
<p>Honestly, I&#8217;ve also felt very stretched in my professional life and blogging got moved to the back.  I thought a couple of times about starting back, but I realized that I didn&#8217;t want to be a once every week and a half blogger, which is probably the best I could have done.  Decided it was better to wait until I could do it well.</p>
<p>Random leadership insight implied from previous paragraph:  Don&#8217;t do something new, unless you can do it well.  Don&#8217;t start something new until you are doing all the other things you&#8217;re supposed to be doing well.</p>
<p>Then in November something amazing happened.  God brought a baby into our home.  It was very sudden.  Not in a we didn&#8217;t know we were pregnant but still had months to think about it way, but a phone call go pick up a baby kind of way.  This is perhaps the most amazing thing that has happened to our family in a long time.  (I try to avoid superlatives.  When you live with 4, yes now 4 women, you have to be careful about things like, &#8220;You&#8217;re the best&#8221;  &#8220;You&#8217;re my best girl&#8221;  One thing about girls.  They are always listening and quickly and decisively filter what you say in ways that make you want to fake receiving a phone call and run from the room.)</p>
<p>Random Husband/Dad insight implied from that unintentionally sexist statement: Be careful what you say around your wife and daughters.  Your words matter. They are listening.  You can crush and inspire with each statement you make.</p>
<p>This precious baby has been in our home for almost 2 months now and is doing great and has completely and totally captivated each and every one of us.  There is a great chance that she will become part of our &#8220;forever family&#8221; (cute expression from adoption circles) and we couldn&#8217;t be more excited.  For those keeping score, that is a 14 year old, 11 year old and 2 month old.  In the meantime, we have to be discreet about talking about her publicly, showing pictures, etc.  This is a way to honor her and her natural family during a very hard time.</p>
<p>So again, you want to know what I&#8217;m thinking about.  Stuff I can&#8217;t really talk about with pictures I can&#8217;t show.  I would destroy this blog and eat the computer if it meant the safety, protection and honoring of this precious gift.</p>
<p>Random pastoral insight from previous paragraph:  Family first.   <span style="line-height: 18px;">Wait, wait. I worry what you just heard was family is important. What I said was: family first.  Do you understand?</span></p>
<p>(Fans of Ron Swanson should be thinking about bacon and eggs)</p>
<p>So the blog is back.  I will occasionally have coded things to say about the world&#8217;s best baby who, by the way, has slept 8 hours 2 of the last 3 nights.</p>
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		<title>Resolution: Read Through the Bible This Year</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Jan 2012 17:17:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I really don&#8217;t believe in New Years Resolutions.  I just think that the beginning of the year is a great time to start new things, make goals and try and improve yourself.  New Years Resolutions are just silly and arbitrary.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I really don&#8217;t believe in New Years Resolutions.  I just think that the beginning of the year is a great time to start new things, make goals and try and improve yourself.  New Years Resolutions are just silly and arbitrary.</p>
<p>Something that we are doing as a church and family is we are going to read through the Bible this year. (Wait, you didn&#8217;t know that? Weren&#8217;t you at church on Sunday?  You weren&#8217;t? Don&#8217;t worry. We are not one of those churches that is real judgmental about people not coming&#8230;as far as you know.)</p>
<p>I have read through the Bible before, if you haven&#8217;t, it&#8217;s worth giving it a go.  Why you may ask?</p>
<p>1) The Bible has some great stories and teachings that most people haven&#8217;t read</p>
<p>2) You will get a better sense for the Bible as a whole</p>
<p>3) You will get a great sense of accomplishment (You know that you&#8217;ve always thought it would be a good idea, but never got around to it)</p>
<p>4) God will speak into your life every day that you are reading his word.</p>
<p>Here are some different options for you:</p>
<p><a title="Bible Reading Plans" href="http://www.esv.org/resources/reading-plans-devotions/" target="_blank">http://www.esv.org/resources/reading-plans-devotions/</a></p>
<p>I am doing the &#8220;Every Day in the Word&#8221; option.  It has a little of the OT, NT, Psalms and Proverbs each day.  A few times a week, I&#8217;ll blog about what we&#8217;re reading (Yes, I&#8217;m blogging again this year. Tomorrow, I&#8217;ll talk about what happened and why), and teach a little through the Old Testament.  If you have any questions, you can email me and I can blog about that.  I really am hoping that a lot of people will make it their goal to make it through the Bible this year, and I want to do whatever I can to help you through (Especially when Leviticus hits).</p>
<p>Pick a plan, make the commitment and let&#8217;s do this together.</p>
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