Balance and the Body–Why We Need Each Other
September 1, 2011 by cloften
Filed under Bible, Church and Leadership, Family and Parenting
I have a confession to make. I’m not a balanced person. Another confession: I never will be. My skills as a gourmet chef are really lagging behind my other ones. I, as of yet, have not even begun my training as a luthier. In fact there are quite a few things that I’m just terrible at. Chef and luthier aren’t even the worst. “What is, then?” Hmm, haven’t given it a lot of thought, but I’ll go with Lasik Eye Surgeon.
There are a few things that I’m good at, there are some things I’m great at, some ok, some mediocre, some slightly above average, some slightly below average, some..”Get on with it!” All that to say, I feel I’m pretty good at public speaking and teaching, however, when the time comes for laser repair on my eyes, I’ll go with someone else.
(Sidenote: This will never happen. Ever. I don’t want your finger within 18 inches of my eye, much less a laser, while I’m awake. Not happening. When the day comes, I will wear glasses, not contacts, glasses. I don’t even want my finger near my eye.)
Hey Captain Ramble, you getting anywhere today? Maybe, just move that threatening finger away from my face. Seriously, it unnerves me. In the same way that I am unbalanced, most churches are unbalanced as well. There are things that churches do well and things that they don’t do well. While it is impossible to get me into balance in the over the top, tongue in cheek ways I’ve described, it is possible for churches to be balanced.
You see, a church doesn’t have to rely on one person or even a small group of people to be balanced. We all have each other. We all bring different skills, gifts and passions to the church. When we all work together, God can use us to be everything he has called us to be as a church.
If your church is weak in something that you are gifted and passionate about, guess what that is not the pastor’s fault or the leadership’s fault. It’s yours. God put you in that church with those gifts and passions. Use them, play your part in the body, your church. Help your church be better by serving your church in that way.
“But Cloften, my church doesn’t let other people lead and do stuff. They are very controlling.” Welpst, there is really only one solution to that. Punch them in the face and tell them it was from me. (Just kidding?) Even still, if you believe that God has called you there and God has impassioned you in this area, do what you can to be a part of the solution.
We, by this I mean me as well, spend a lot of our time complaining about what is and wishing about what is not yet. We spend less time being used by God to make what is not, is. (Sorry) If you are at the Grove, we need you. If you are somewhere else, I assure you, your church needs you as well.
Especially if you are a luthier.